Suck it, ableism

If you haven’t heard about the controversy around plastic straw bans, it’s quite possible you live under a rock but I’ll try to sum it up for you. Plastic straw bans are sweeping across the country. And a lot of us are not okay with it. There’s so many things I could say about the ban, and I have so many feelings. But I am going to try and focus on telling people why the proposed solutions don’t work. Everyone else has done so many things explaining why reusable straws don’t work, and there are some links attached for further reading at the end of this post.

I have seen many people say that straws should be available on demand, and at first I was okay with that. But then I thought abut it some more. As a disabled person, do you know how many times I’ve asked for something and have been denied it, because someone thought I didn’t really need it? By putting the ball completely in our court, you are setting us up to be gaslit. You are setting us up for gatekeeping. And you are automatically setting us up to be denied what we need.

I have seen people say “well, bring your own plastic straw if you need one”. While currently, the Santa Barbara ban only applies to businesses, it would be naive to think that it won’t expand to individuals. Disabled people have been telling you, since the ban was announced, that this would happen. Why haven’t you been listening to us?

I have seen people say that if people truly need plastic straws, they should be prescription only. Why is that a problem? Disabled people are already constantly fighting their insurance for things they need. For example, I have friends who need medical supplies for their condition but those supplies are denied by their insurance. Why are we adding something else to an already broken system? What if insurance decides not to cover the straw? What if they don’t give enough straws?

And most of all? Milo Cress, the nine year old boy whose report is often citied doesn’t want a straw ban. The policy he advocates for? Just ask. Ask. I’d like to ask the able bodied people: why is it bad for the server to ask if you want a straw? Why should the burden of saying we need a straw fall on disabled people? Isn’t the server asking, the very policy Milo was advocating for from the beginning, a decent solution? Why are the solutions that Milo himself, now 17, are offering and the solutions that disabled people are offering not listened to… but everyone else is supposed to be listened to? I’d like you to think on that.

People have asked what people did before plastic straws. The answer? They died. In fact, bendy straws were created for disabled people. We are why they exist. Plastic straw bans hurt us. For a lot of us, reusable straws aren’t safe. Banning plastic straws is flat out eugenics and there’s no way to candy coat that.

 

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